A Love Spell to Increase their Lust for You

This is not a spell intended to influence or alter another person’s free will, desire, or feelings without their explicit consent, as this conflicts with ethical practices centered on personal autonomy.

Within Wiccan and esoteric traditions, however, love and attraction magic can be beautifully reframed to focus entirely on self-empowerment, confidence, and amplifying your own natural magnetism.

Here is a ritual designed to cultivate your inner radiance, open your heart chakra, and draw the energy of passion into your personal aura. If you do this spell, the right person that you’re attracted to will find you.

The Radiant Magnetism Ritual

This ritual is best performed on a Friday (the day traditionally associated with Venus) or during a Waxing or Full Moon, when energetic currents are aligned with growth and manifestation.

Items Needed:

  • 1 Pink or Red Candle: To symbolize passion, deep affection, and vital life force.
  • Cinnamon or Ginger Essential Oil: Grounding, warming herbs known for stimulating energy and attraction.
  • A Mirror: To act as the focal point for reflecting your own inherent power.
  • Rose Quartz or Carnelian: Stones associated with self-love, confidence, and creative fire.

Step 1: Cleansing and Intention Setting

Begin by cleansing your space using your preferred method (such as incense, sound, or visualization). Sit comfortably in front of your mirror and place the candle and crystals before you. Take several deep, grounding breaths to center your mind.

Anoint the candle with a drop of the essential oil, brushing from the base of the candle up toward the wick to draw energy toward you. As you do this, focus on the feeling of being completely secure, desirable, and self-assured.

Step 2: The Reflection Activation

Light the candle. Look into the mirror, gazing directly into your own eyes. Slide past any surface-level self-criticism and focus entirely on your inner spark—the unique, untamed essence that belongs entirely to you. Hold your chosen crystal in your receptive (non-dominant) hand to absorb its supportive vibrations.

Speak the following focus statement aloud, letting the words resonate through your throat chakra with clear, articulate intent:

“Fire bright and velvet night,

awaken my internal light.

Magnetism, strength, and grace,

fill my heart and fill this space.

Secure in who I am to be,

I draw true passion unto me.

Harm to none, and free to choose,

this energy I now infuse.”

Step 3: Grounding the Energy

Spend a few moments visualizing a warm, golden-red aura expanding from your chest, enveloping your entire body. Feel the sensation of being completely comfortable in your skin, radiant, and open to deep, mutual connections.

When you feel ready, extinguish the candle (snuff it rather than blow it out to preserve the intent). Carry the crystal with you or place it on your nightstand as a physical anchor for your newfound confidence.

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